I had no idea that October would such a significant month for me. I have always loved October with the cool, crisp air it brings. It is the start of holiday season, I bust out my warm cozy sweaters, cute booties, and I love baking in the fall. October is also Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month.
On October 25, 1988 President Ronald Reagan stated,
"When a child loses his parent, they are called an orphan. When a spouse loses her or his partner, they are called a widow or widower. When parents lose their child, there isn’t a word to describe them. This month recognizes the loss so many parents experience across the United States and around the world. It is also meant to inform and provide resources for parents who have lost children due to miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, molar pregnancy, stillbirths, birth defects, SIDS, and other causes.
Now, Therefore, I, Ronald Reagan, President of the United States of America, do hereby proclaim the month of October as Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. I call upon the people of the United States to observe this month with appropriate programs, ceremonies, and activities.”
Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month is close to my heart. I know the brokenness that comes from pregnancy loss and the ache that lingers.
I also know there is hope and peace that slowly fills into the broken spaces. I have met a community of people & women who have been able to mourn with me and be empathetic. They are friends that I know I’ll have the rest of my life.
This month I hope you are able to find comfort, and not feel alone in grief, or learn how to better support a friend or family member. Pregnancy and infant loss matters. I’m looking forward to bringing awareness this month and honoring my 4 babies.